What am I looking for? That determines the standards. Am I looking for something long term or short? If long, what is it taht has lacked in all my relationships? There's a piece I don't now how to idenfity...
Short term, for some reason seems to be...not enough. Although my goals are much more clearly defined. No in order but certainly:
1. Must have a job
2. Must not live with parents
3. Must be smart and able to carry a conversation
4. Must be outgoing and goal oriented
5. Must be willing to accept my family and respect the value they bring to my life
6. Must respect me!! (you know - return phone calls in a timely manner, include me in outtings and activities, want to spend time around me, make a effort at making me happy)